Mum started wandering all around the garden, wouldn’t answer me , then sat on garden bench looking upset , I sat with her and asked her what was wrong , she wouldn’t tell me for ages , Mil was waiting for me as we were due to leave for hospital but I couldn’t just leave mum stewing with girls having to sit with her , after much nudging she told me again about something really very bad that happened to her (I’m not sure it’s true ) but she was upset , managed to cuddle her and tell her he was dead (he isn’t I don’t think ) and he couldn’t hurt her anymore and to let go of that particular memory and set herself free . It seemed to work and I was able to get on my way and mum was fine, find it weird how when she is upset this particular bad memory rears it’s ugly head .
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