Thanks @Starting on a journey , we did have a routine of sorts during lockdown but hubby now back at work and it’s trying to get back in to one , she goes to bed at all different times , sometimes 8pm other times 11pm . Like the McDonald’s visit ! Mum would hate fast food , well she always did before . We haven’t left house yet as have been trying to shield as help care for in laws and he is high risk . Yes it’s def a reassurance thing , just draining sometimes when you just want 5 minutes peace . I do try and understand how she feels though .