Hello all havent been here for a while but wanted to share some good news.......Im getting married yes Mums still living in LA LA land and things have got quite bad lately with mood swings etc but hey ho Im getting married My partner will move in with us and life will be great.My sons are coping lots better with their nanny the youngest has joined a carers group at his school which is a great help. A few years back I couldnt accept my mums dementia but gradually I came to understand and realise the best way is to find the patience inside me that she had for me when I was young. hope everyone is happy