Hi All This morning 8.30am spoke to my mam she sounded fine I thought it's going to be a good day the sun is shinning , by 9am she had phoned me back as confused as ever this seems to be happenning more and more . The pills ladie had been all was well . I dont understand why she would be so confused with in a half an hour. Is this how it's going to be more and more confusion then not remembering at all can you tell me . She tell's me that she is at home but I know she does not know where home is any more on bad days.( perhaps an old house she used to live in with my dad when they were younger before I was born ) As her illness get's a hold day by day she slips futher away from me it's sad . I try to take each day as it is but sometimes I am so angry at Alzheimers it' so very cruel on a brighter note I do have lots of good memories like at the seaside with the biggest ice cream that we could eat that was after the fish and chips we eaten together . A very sad Gillianw . PS Im getting lots of new idears reading through your posts and feel not so alone Thankyou .