I have continued to have many very difficult evenings and nights with John, really restless and aggressive, often waking in the night and creating mayhem by storming round the house swearing and throwing things at me. The trazodone tablets, which were increased to 3 a day, do not seem to have had any effect. The consultant put him on Ebixa 10 days ago but it takes 4 weeks to get to the full doseage.
So after a dreadful night on Sunday when John kicked me and kept grabbing me by the arms and shaking me, pushing me over once, I rang the CPN yesterday. This morning she really shook me by ringing to say that they wanted John to go into the unit for assessment. I have taken him today. He didn't know what was going on, but they will apparently spend 2 weeks assessing him, possibly do another CT scan etc and try to sort out the medication to calm down the aggression. They reckon he will be in for at least two weeks then there will be a case conference to decide what to do. The doctor has tried to talk to John, but unsurprizingly can get no sense from him, so I'm going down in the morning to meet the doctor.
I came home and wandered round the house like a lost soul, but I do hope that tonight I can sleep as I won't have to worry about John waking up in one of his moods.
I must say that I'm quite impressed with the staff in the dementia unit here and how they have responded so quickly to try and help.
Just one question - does anyone know what happens to the attendance allowance whilst john is in hospital?
Hoping for a good night's sleep but feeling very strange.
Anne
So after a dreadful night on Sunday when John kicked me and kept grabbing me by the arms and shaking me, pushing me over once, I rang the CPN yesterday. This morning she really shook me by ringing to say that they wanted John to go into the unit for assessment. I have taken him today. He didn't know what was going on, but they will apparently spend 2 weeks assessing him, possibly do another CT scan etc and try to sort out the medication to calm down the aggression. They reckon he will be in for at least two weeks then there will be a case conference to decide what to do. The doctor has tried to talk to John, but unsurprizingly can get no sense from him, so I'm going down in the morning to meet the doctor.
I came home and wandered round the house like a lost soul, but I do hope that tonight I can sleep as I won't have to worry about John waking up in one of his moods.
I must say that I'm quite impressed with the staff in the dementia unit here and how they have responded so quickly to try and help.
Just one question - does anyone know what happens to the attendance allowance whilst john is in hospital?
Hoping for a good night's sleep but feeling very strange.
Anne