This may be a long post but would like some advice please as I'm questioning myself as a daughter/carer. Mom lives alone and getting increasingly unable to cope. She always tell the officials everything is fine when they are obviously not. I do all her shopping, a range and take her to appointments and dementia cafe. I also go every morning to set up her dinner in microwave. I have a young family and work at lunchtime and have a busy household. She has a dog which she takes out 2/3 Times a day and she goes to a gym class in the village. A neighbour stopped me today to say she goes down 4/5 Times but doesn't get the time right have suggested I call her when time but she just doesn't get that. The real concern is that she almost got knocked down crossing the road driver had to get out of car and was quite upset. Mother swears blind it never happened. I know people with dementia can't remember but I'm just at a loss what I should do now. Do I stop her going which I don't think she would let me anyway and I don't want to control her. She says she's so tired of trying to get things right. What can I say or do to help her I just feel helpless but this is an accident waiting to happen. Sorry for the rant.