My husband, who was always very possessive and didn't like me going out, was diagnosed two years ago., His condition is quite mild and he is perfectly capable of being left on his own for short spells of time. However, whenever I arrange to go out he goes into a mood and stops speaking to me, or else goes off on his own before the time he knows I will be back as if to worry me, which it does.
I am getting to the stage where I hardly ever go out without him as it is easier not to, but I am getting resentful and stressed and very unhappy with the situation. I do all the things I have been advised to, like writing on the board where I am and what time I am likely to return etc. but it doesn't make any difference. He also continually phones me if I am out. He has no interests outwith the home and despite my attempts to get him involved in things, will not do so. I feel like my life is over
I am getting to the stage where I hardly ever go out without him as it is easier not to, but I am getting resentful and stressed and very unhappy with the situation. I do all the things I have been advised to, like writing on the board where I am and what time I am likely to return etc. but it doesn't make any difference. He also continually phones me if I am out. He has no interests outwith the home and despite my attempts to get him involved in things, will not do so. I feel like my life is over