Dear Lonniefrancis,
So very sorry to hear your mum passed away recently, my thoughts are with you.
It's been 6 months now since my mum died, and I'm still going over her last few weeks of life.
My grief counsellor has been fantastic, she suggested that the district nurses come down and speak with me regarding their notes after their daily visits.
They came to see me after my GP informed them that I was struggling to come to terms with her death. They came 2 weeks later and brought all the notes with them, from their visits and the Marie Curie night sitters visits. It really helped because mum died in the early hours of the morning and I thought the nurses only visited her in the morning after she had had a seizure, but unknowing to me they actually visited again after tea time and written in the notes was that "Mum was peaceful and settled".
That made me feel lots better although some days I am still struggling with "what if's" and "If only's".
Maybe some grief counselling would benefit you, I think it's working for me!
Look after yourself, and I hope you find strenght in the weeks and months to come.
Alice jude xx