Going on alone

[sunray]

Esmeralda I lost my husband Ray eight years ago. I still remember the turmoil of living with someone with so many conflicting needs but my life as a widow has different highs and lows. I keep this thread going because I still keep in touch with friends I made on here as a Carer. Perhaps you will be in my position one day but in the meantime I do understand the frustrations that a Carers life involved. Hope things get better for you soon.

 

[sunray]

I have found my widows life in Covid times has been difficult but at least we are not in a red zone now. We were called Greater Syndey for a while and were in semi lockdown. Christmas was different because of that and my grand children's visits with only five allowed to visit but we managed. The Adelaide grandchildren went home two weeks early to self isolate and return to school in two days time. Today was the hottest for a while 40 degrees and high humidity. That is when I find the waist to toe pressure stockings almost unbearable. But by staying out of the sun I manage to keep the swelling caused by the lymphodema to a minimum. Really I am so blessed. Not much news for the moment life is happily uneventful. Keep safe everyone, you are all in my prayers for a happy outcome from the present state of the world.

 

[sunray]

Getting ready for the annual visit to the oncologist, blood tests today, CT Brain and full body PET scan next week . This stirs up all the "what if" thoughts but I guess everyone feels that as the annual checkup comes close. Luckily on my side of Australia no bush fires but I feel sorry for friends in Western Australia who are going through the kind of fires we had last year. Hopefully heavy rain predicted for next week will dampen the fires down. Summer is cooler than last year and has been wetter but today is beautiful so I need to appreciate what I have.

 

[Izzy]

I hope all goes well for you with the tests and @sunray.

 

[sunray]

Thank you Izzy.

 

[sunray]

I had a bit of a scare as an "anomaly" appeared in the PET scan! I did panic a bit as melanoma on the liver would have been a disaster. I had a second CT scan and when I saw the oncologist on Wednesday he said that was all clear! He also said most of my problems were minor but he would like to see me again in six months time just in case. The conditions I have are mostly due to previous illnesses and of course age related.

I also saw the physiotherapist who specialises in Lymphodema and she said my condition is stable and I can fly now as long as I exercise for four minutes every half hour during the flight. I guess England is out for now but New Zealand and even perhaps Hawaii (eight hours away) would be doable. But first we all have to get over Covid, until then still no flying except within Australia. It will be great to be able to have travel plans again.

 

[Shedrech]

really good to your positive news @sunray ... a relief for you ... here's to holidays for all of us, fingers crossed

 

[Canadian Joanne]

I'm so glad for you that you got the all clear from the oncologist @sunray. Yes, a holiday would be lovely. I have two aunties in Quebec who are 88 and 90 who I would dearly like to see. I haven't seen them for a year and a half now. My older aunt is getting rather frail, so it is a concern.