It never fails to get me how many people think that when your husband is in a care home your life will be the better of it. Those who do not understand that if he dies your grief and mourning will be no less. (Loopiloo)
Loo I was one of the people who actually thought that way. I cried all through the year Ray was in care. Then he died and suddenly I was crying again, bucketfulls. I cried all that first year and then slowed down through the second and third years. But I still go through periods of everything reminding me of my loss and off I go again. Grief is strange that way.
Sue.
Loo I was one of the people who actually thought that way. I cried all through the year Ray was in care. Then he died and suddenly I was crying again, bucketfulls. I cried all that first year and then slowed down through the second and third years. But I still go through periods of everything reminding me of my loss and off I go again. Grief is strange that way.
Sue.