Hiya Poppetweb,
Of course you and your mum want the best possible care that you can get for your dad. Will your mum qualify for a council flat, or will she have to use some of the equity to buy one?
What if your dad should live for more than three years, by which time the equity will be nearly gone? Will he then move to a council funded place?
I don't mean to appear negative Poppetweb. The equity sounds a lot of money at present, but it will quickly be swallowed up.
Have you tried talking to the Alzheimers Helpline, they may be able to offer some alternative ideas?
Take care.
Love Helen
Of course you and your mum want the best possible care that you can get for your dad. Will your mum qualify for a council flat, or will she have to use some of the equity to buy one?
What if your dad should live for more than three years, by which time the equity will be nearly gone? Will he then move to a council funded place?
I don't mean to appear negative Poppetweb. The equity sounds a lot of money at present, but it will quickly be swallowed up.
Have you tried talking to the Alzheimers Helpline, they may be able to offer some alternative ideas?
Take care.
Love Helen