Come Monday I am going to go back to work albeit on a phased basis. I can't believe how nervous I am feeling at the thought of leaving mi laddo although I believe he will be fine without my constant supervision. Probably better without, what he must see as, my constant interference! Reading other people's posts I realise I am extremely lucky. I haven't asked for a huge care package as I will be sorting out his getting up, breakfast, lunch, tea and bedtime. My carers are coming in between those times. We have now met all the carers and he doesn't seem to mind them coming in at all. (I could have been upset yesterday when he looked at me as if to say 'so which carer are you then?!'but I wasn't.) I think the critical thing is our carers work purely with people who have dementia. They are trained for that purpose. Not only will they be doing the things I ask (even to taking the dog a walk!) but have already designed activities which they will try and encourage him to do. They are also very local lasses - one lives just a few roads away from us and that is a real positive for me. I think they are intrigued with mi laddo because he is early onset and possibly quite rapid onset too and already they are talking of him being a little case study because they have never had someone so young. But I am confident that they know what they are doing and that all will be well in my absence - even though I am extremely nervous. I hadn't realised how lucky am I when I see the concerns raised about carers in other people's posts?
Love from Sammyb
Love from Sammyb