I have found life increasingly difficult ( as all of us do) with my OH. He never talks to me, Treats me like the housekeeper Has no thoughts for me, as his dementia gets worse I try to work from home ( need to) but he constantly interrupts I manage everything around the house - he has no responsibilities He seems happy to spend hours and hours watching the same TV programmes over and again and does not want or need my company. He does not go to bed until 2.30am and keeps me awake We are not married Only been together 8 years. I am looking at renting a room to use as an office to spend a few hours a week away from him. Even his family have told me to leave him My son has just bought a flat to let - 12 miles away Please, what should I do? Move into the flat where I can still act as my OH's carer and facillitator with out the minute by minute sheer unhappiness? Yeah or Nay?