hi all,
well things are begining to move forward in terms of equipment to help mil at home. getting a sensor on the door, a new device for medication...this sounds good...it has a 28 day cycle with and alarm that goes on for up to an hour every day or until mil takes her meds. in theroy sounds great but i suspect she will have difficulty with it anyway. also getting an emergency pendent and a special smoke detector.
the lady that visited mil also went round saying to her in a very amusing matron manner, "that will go and that"...referring to mil's rugs...!!! this is good because her balance is not so good now.
we have had a huge increse in the number of phone calls we get in a day...very tiring and i have just had her on the phone asking if i can get 'little (name of my son)" a duffal coat as they are going down for a comic and sweets. i tried to tell her its ok as george was here. she said no he's here. i said try the touch tecnique the Dr suggested. she said yes he's all soft. i said are you touching the sofa? 'yes thats right' she replies...i say well 'he' is not there then is he, 'he' is here do you want to talk to him. the conversation is cut short and well i am in the dog house again cause i have taken her child and am not including her in the upbringing!!!
any ideas on how best to deal with this...she frequently says about getting clothes for these people and i have had to stop her from buying new from M & S!!! maybe i could leave my sons old/spare coat round there as a deterant? has anyone else had issues such as this and what did you do?
poppet
well things are begining to move forward in terms of equipment to help mil at home. getting a sensor on the door, a new device for medication...this sounds good...it has a 28 day cycle with and alarm that goes on for up to an hour every day or until mil takes her meds. in theroy sounds great but i suspect she will have difficulty with it anyway. also getting an emergency pendent and a special smoke detector.
the lady that visited mil also went round saying to her in a very amusing matron manner, "that will go and that"...referring to mil's rugs...!!! this is good because her balance is not so good now.
we have had a huge increse in the number of phone calls we get in a day...very tiring and i have just had her on the phone asking if i can get 'little (name of my son)" a duffal coat as they are going down for a comic and sweets. i tried to tell her its ok as george was here. she said no he's here. i said try the touch tecnique the Dr suggested. she said yes he's all soft. i said are you touching the sofa? 'yes thats right' she replies...i say well 'he' is not there then is he, 'he' is here do you want to talk to him. the conversation is cut short and well i am in the dog house again cause i have taken her child and am not including her in the upbringing!!!
any ideas on how best to deal with this...she frequently says about getting clothes for these people and i have had to stop her from buying new from M & S!!! maybe i could leave my sons old/spare coat round there as a deterant? has anyone else had issues such as this and what did you do?
poppet