My mum has mixed dementia, along with some other medical conditions that need to be managed through medication.
My brothers and I live quite a way from my mum and until quite recently she managed her medication as best she could, with our support. She had had dosset boxes, which were not effective. We have tried an automatic pill dispenser which she claimed was broken and forced it round with her key to get to whatever day she thought it was. The upshot of all this was that she was admitted to hospital. Upon discharge, the hospital put some carer visits in place and we have just continued paying for these as it means she gets her medication regularly.
She is now calling me asking to cancel the carers. She is adamant she is capable of taking her medication regularly, which isn't really supported by experience, and she won't consider going into a home (even though she talks about that option regularly but then changes her mind)
I've tried distraction and telling her to leave it with me but today she is determined to cancel the carers. Does anyone have any experience in this area? Any advice gratefully received.
My brothers and I live quite a way from my mum and until quite recently she managed her medication as best she could, with our support. She had had dosset boxes, which were not effective. We have tried an automatic pill dispenser which she claimed was broken and forced it round with her key to get to whatever day she thought it was. The upshot of all this was that she was admitted to hospital. Upon discharge, the hospital put some carer visits in place and we have just continued paying for these as it means she gets her medication regularly.
She is now calling me asking to cancel the carers. She is adamant she is capable of taking her medication regularly, which isn't really supported by experience, and she won't consider going into a home (even though she talks about that option regularly but then changes her mind)
I've tried distraction and telling her to leave it with me but today she is determined to cancel the carers. Does anyone have any experience in this area? Any advice gratefully received.