My husband has mild mixed dementia (vascular and Alzheimer’s). He is still able to take care of his own hygiene and getting dressed but he often doesn’t get downstairs until 2pm. He resists all offers of help and I do what I can to get things organised, such as lay out his clothes and bring him his breakfast and medication but he can’t be hurried and it means that we cannot get to many of the activities provided by our local support group. As he is still fairly active although his mobility is declining, he can get into situations where he needs help for example if he falls. As a result I have had to give up many of the groups I was involved in and I had hoped that we could do the activities together but this is proving difficult if not impossible. How do others deal with this? He still knows his own mind and I’ve learned not to chivvy him along as it’s not worth the battle. At the moment I’m dreading even getting him to the surgery for his flu jab on Saturday morning.