Hi,
This is my first post, so sorry if its been answered before.
My dad is in an assessment home and has been there for 2 months. He was only meant to be there for 5 weeks. Mum who is 83 visists him every day, and me and my brother get to visit as much as we can also. It takes mum 2 buses there and back. The home is great , but we are trying to get him moved to nearer's mums place as it is taking a toll on her health as well. the NHS are being very slow. they have not assessed my parents finances yet, or even checked out their own flat for suitability( it is not, as Mum can't care for Dad anymore). Mum took the initiative and contacted her GP who is great, and she has been advised that following the GP contacting the home, Dad is the top of the list for the home we would like (just awaiting a vacancy). When she told the care co-ordinator at the home, she was told that 'her Gp can't do that ' as no financial assessment has been done. Surely Dad and mum are the GP's patients and he can take the initiative? Or am I wrong in this? There seems to be no joined up co-ordination, and we are very worried that Dad will be moved to a place even further away ( as they previously suggested) for another assessment. They know he has dementia and Parkinsons already,and my Mum has said it is taking a toll on her health and she cannot keep travelling every day to a place that will be even further away . Mum's needs are being ignored here. Do you think her GP can take the lead here or are we all meddling too much? Mum is of the generation that doesn't want to make a fuss. Any advice /comments would be greatly appreciated
This is my first post, so sorry if its been answered before.
My dad is in an assessment home and has been there for 2 months. He was only meant to be there for 5 weeks. Mum who is 83 visists him every day, and me and my brother get to visit as much as we can also. It takes mum 2 buses there and back. The home is great , but we are trying to get him moved to nearer's mums place as it is taking a toll on her health as well. the NHS are being very slow. they have not assessed my parents finances yet, or even checked out their own flat for suitability( it is not, as Mum can't care for Dad anymore). Mum took the initiative and contacted her GP who is great, and she has been advised that following the GP contacting the home, Dad is the top of the list for the home we would like (just awaiting a vacancy). When she told the care co-ordinator at the home, she was told that 'her Gp can't do that ' as no financial assessment has been done. Surely Dad and mum are the GP's patients and he can take the initiative? Or am I wrong in this? There seems to be no joined up co-ordination, and we are very worried that Dad will be moved to a place even further away ( as they previously suggested) for another assessment. They know he has dementia and Parkinsons already,and my Mum has said it is taking a toll on her health and she cannot keep travelling every day to a place that will be even further away . Mum's needs are being ignored here. Do you think her GP can take the lead here or are we all meddling too much? Mum is of the generation that doesn't want to make a fuss. Any advice /comments would be greatly appreciated