Hi. I lost my Dad to Alzheimer's 12 months ago and since then I can't get funeral arrangements out of my mind. I am in my early forties and am married with no children. I am worried about developing dementia myself and how to make arrangements for my care and funeral with no children to arrange this if my husband pre decreases me. There is nothing on the Internet and posts on other forums have led to some semi abusive replies. It seems that it's something no one wants to think about. I understand this but I can't stop thinking about it. Can anyone help me? Please don't ask me why I don't have children. I can't have them. I'm not a loser or a loner. I'm just worried. Thank you.