Hello all
I haven't been on here for ages but thought now might be a good time to come back.
Mum is so lovely but now has real bladder problems ... she just goes whereever whenever and refuses to were incontinence pants etc. I am at the end of my tether (is that how you spell it?)
She is happy to wear wet shoes and I am forever washing them as best I can. There are puddles on her (shared) carpeted entrance and she's even done it in a shop.
I don't know what to do?! She's on bladder stability medication. We are going to the memory clinic in 3 weeks but it's soooo frustrating as she is fairly OK apart from this, bad short term memory and problems with night and day.
I feel so sorry for her. I'm not sure if shes in denial about it or genuinely not aware its happening sometimes
I know there probably isn't a solution but thanks for listening
I haven't been on here for ages but thought now might be a good time to come back.
Mum is so lovely but now has real bladder problems ... she just goes whereever whenever and refuses to were incontinence pants etc. I am at the end of my tether (is that how you spell it?)
She is happy to wear wet shoes and I am forever washing them as best I can. There are puddles on her (shared) carpeted entrance and she's even done it in a shop.
I don't know what to do?! She's on bladder stability medication. We are going to the memory clinic in 3 weeks but it's soooo frustrating as she is fairly OK apart from this, bad short term memory and problems with night and day.
I feel so sorry for her. I'm not sure if shes in denial about it or genuinely not aware its happening sometimes
I know there probably isn't a solution but thanks for listening