Hello, I am new to this forum and am hoping to get some feed back as to how to talk to my Mother in law who has dementia. She is in assisted living and is very beligerent when we speak to her, as she doesn't feel that she belongs there. She threatens to leave there and blames my husband and myself for putting her there. She of course no longer drives, but threatens us that she is going to start driving again as she likes to gamble and wants only to go to casinos everyday. I am so frustrated and I get very anxious when the phone rings, because she is so beligerent. Any feedback on how to handle this situation would be greatly appreciated.