Hi. Havent posted for a long time, mum had settled in nicely with us. Even got her to go to respite another story but she settled came home and re settled back in the house. Anyway my husband and I and kids (14 and twins 11) been looking after her throughout the school holiday. Husband and i taking alternative days off to look after them all. Anyway this week both of us had to go back to work arranged with my work for me to only work mornings and for me temporarily to bring work home in afternoon due to kids and mum. Mum saying shes fine with kids, kids saying they are fine with mum sandwiches snacks sorted off to work we both go. Lunch time before im due to come home with work phonecall distressed 14 year old saying police have called in that someone had called social services and they had sent the police out that i had left children with a vilnerable person. ( think its a family member) as they would only know that i was going back to work, Anyway I got home phoned the police up they were happy to close the case as they felt that the kids oldest 14 was mature enough with grannie, and lucky that grannie was having a good day and she was fine and talkative. She has slightly improved since moving in, no apparent danger at all, plus i mentioned i had a friend nearby on call should any problems arrive. Apparently ok me to carry on with this set up no crime has been commited etc nice to see a family unit working together to help each other. But im still spitting feathers about this anon person who made this call and running what if scenarios through my head. Grannie used to look after the children years ago before she went ill, kids adore her since shes moved in run ing around making cups of tea for her etc. really shaken me up as ive got work for another week, we are off on hols again week after tsking gran with is (give it a go). Do i just shrug it off as a misunderstanding of someone to overley concerned. I appreciate that the illness shes got she is not getting better and will get worse, there may come a time when I wont be able to look after her etc. in september when kids will be back to school and i will be back to work poor gran will be on her own except for a carer calling in so another worry as she will miss the company she has had during school hols.