Ah my dear virtual friends - apparently the only true friends that exist. I'm so mad - I feel utterly let down and disappointed by someone who both my sister and I believed was a good friend for the last ten years. Said person has been behaving oddly since Christmas - at first we were getting a little irritated but then I said that they couldn't possibly imagine what our life was like right now so we should try tobe more understanding. This weekend we all got together for a BBQ. Eventually my sister asked said person why they had been behaving oddly and had we done something to upset them. Their response "I don't want to be around people with problems." I don't even know what to say - as most of you know she lost her baby only a month ago, not to mention the current stuff with mum and this is their response. I'm so angry - I can't see the point in saying anything to them, I think it's just the end of the friendship. How can that be someone's response after ten years of friendship. In an very uncharitable outburst I hope their life goes to **** and they'll soon see that you don't exactly bring these problems on yourself. What would you do? Say something or silently cut them off?