I am so upset that my OH forgets to see our grandchildren. He is still working and I see them on my own. My daughter in law is asking me now when he is coming to see them and I am at a loss what to say. I feel so upset about it but as my husband hasn’t been diagnosed yet I can’t say. I know he just forgets but it just looks like he is being cold and not interested. He doesn’t want anyone to know that he has memory problems. I’m the only person who knows. What can I do?