I have cared for my 90 Yr old mother with moderate dementia and have lived with me and my 2 children for 8 years. I felt caring for my mum was the right thing to do but it has been very challenging, at the least it has changed family dynamics, loss of privacy, etc and at the most, my children both feel living with their elderly nan has ruined their childhood, they are now 21 and 18 yrs. We have a lovely daily, privately, arranged carer visit during the week. My daughter, 18 yrs, has had 2 suicide attempts in 12 months and continues to be vulnerable. I have a very demanding and stressful full-time job. When I was growing up my mother had several suicide attempts - I feel overwhelmed with the stress and if I am honest resentful towards her - which I feel very guilty about. I no longer feel able to continue to care for my mum. The stress of caring for her has sadly ruined any relationship I had with her. My brother is blocking my mother from going into a residential care home, despite the local authority recommending it. My brother is insisting on additional domiciliary visits which I feel is just too much and an infringement on my privacy in my home. My mum is not on the deeds or mortgage of the house but she does have equity in the property. Can I be forced to continue caring for my mum? Can additional domiciliary visits be forced? Does my or my children's well-being have any weight? TIA Sara