Since mum died of Alzheimer’s 11 months ago I rarely post on TP, I only reply to a post if I feel I can be of some help/comfort to another carer going through the journey that mum and I went on together with this dreadful disease. Mostly I find it just too tough to read most posts, too close to home, and still all very raw for me.
With regard TP, at a time when I felt completely lost I had so much help, support and advice from TP members. At times it saved my sanity, and over the years I have made some very close friends who have been there for me through the good and the bad times, and for this I will be eternally grateful.
When I could no longer care for mum at home I had to make the most heart breaking decision to find a suitable NH with EMI facility. After looking at a number of homes we settled on a
[care home provider edited] NH. I can only speak as I found. My mother received the most wonderful care, she was treated with compassion and respect at all times.
I would on a very regular basis drop in at all different hours of the day or night and was always greeted with a hug and a cuppa from staff members. I will never ever forget the tender loving care both mum and I received during the last week of mum’s life; I am just not able to put into words adequately how kind the staff were to us both. Having read the article, I felt the need to in a way defend
[care home provider edited]. I agree there are good and bad NH (I saw plenty of bad when doing my own research for mum), but I can only speak as I found.
Incidentally, on mum’s floor there were 14 residents, only two were self funding, mum being one of them, the high level of care was just the same for all.
Moderator note:
sorry Cate, good or bad, the naming of care homes and providers isn't permitted by AS, even when reports are good.
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