In a nutshell Mum was hospitalised with delirium in July. It ‘clinically resolved’ approx 6 weeks ago but because she can no longer cope at home, it is a waiting game to find her a care placement.
With lockdown now in place I can’t see her going anywhere anytime soon and strangely there seems no urgency to find somewhere, despite pressure on psychiatric beds.
However my biggest concern currently is Mum’s cognitive state. I accept the delirium has lifted but she is far from the woman she was. She is getting names and events muddled,repeatedly asking the same questions. I received a phonecall from my aunt the other day saying Mum had sent her a very strange letter (posted by the staff) with the wrong surname. It contained requests for very random items (cottage cheese and crisps!?) to be sent - all the more odd as my aunt lives 4 hours away! Also asking my aunt to go round and speak to Mum’s neighbour.
Also the other day I made some very simple phone calls on her behalf whilst sat next to her. When I finished she looked utterly confused and said ‘everything was so complicated’ (it really wasn’t, I was booking her car in to be serviced).
She just isn’t right, yet the unit seems to have washed their hands of her.
Can I insist on a memory test whilst she is still an inpatient? Is there anything else I can request? It would make much more sense to investigate now rather than leaving it to when she’s back in the community.
With lockdown now in place I can’t see her going anywhere anytime soon and strangely there seems no urgency to find somewhere, despite pressure on psychiatric beds.
However my biggest concern currently is Mum’s cognitive state. I accept the delirium has lifted but she is far from the woman she was. She is getting names and events muddled,repeatedly asking the same questions. I received a phonecall from my aunt the other day saying Mum had sent her a very strange letter (posted by the staff) with the wrong surname. It contained requests for very random items (cottage cheese and crisps!?) to be sent - all the more odd as my aunt lives 4 hours away! Also asking my aunt to go round and speak to Mum’s neighbour.
Also the other day I made some very simple phone calls on her behalf whilst sat next to her. When I finished she looked utterly confused and said ‘everything was so complicated’ (it really wasn’t, I was booking her car in to be serviced).
She just isn’t right, yet the unit seems to have washed their hands of her.
Can I insist on a memory test whilst she is still an inpatient? Is there anything else I can request? It would make much more sense to investigate now rather than leaving it to when she’s back in the community.