Hi, not been here for a while.I had a meeting with Dads social worker and someone from the mental health team and it was agreed that Dad needed residential care. He has carers going in 4 times a day at the moment but is not very happy with all these people going in - he cannot understand that they are there to help him and I am getting calls from the carers about him.
I went to look at a home that catered for dementia but when my husband and I got there we could here someone shouting even befor we entered the building. The home was lovely and the staff seemed very nice, but as Dad is not as bad as the people there I could not let him go there. Dads main problem is that he wanders so we will need somewhere with a "locked door" but he would be aware of the other people and would not settle there. It is his short term memory and the wandering that are the concerns.
Does anyone know which would be the best type of home to look at, so that he will be safe but would not feel like he was in a distressing situation.
I hope that someone will have some advice.
Many Thanks
katdan
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I went to look at a home that catered for dementia but when my husband and I got there we could here someone shouting even befor we entered the building. The home was lovely and the staff seemed very nice, but as Dad is not as bad as the people there I could not let him go there. Dads main problem is that he wanders so we will need somewhere with a "locked door" but he would be aware of the other people and would not settle there. It is his short term memory and the wandering that are the concerns.
Does anyone know which would be the best type of home to look at, so that he will be safe but would not feel like he was in a distressing situation.
I hope that someone will have some advice.
Many Thanks
katdan
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