Hi everyone, since I last posted, my husband has been admitted to a nursing home after an emergency admission to the hospital with an infection and neutropeania. I was called one morning to say he was being discharged later that same day. I put my foot down and said I couldn't have him at home because he still wasn't well ( looked like Albert Steptoe and was very confused) and I was on my own with no other help. After much humming and haaing, the OT reluctantly agreed. Spoke to a doctor that afternoon when I was alloed to visit and she agreed he could stay for 24 hours to arrange admission to nursing home. I won't go into details, but I was horrified at the attitude of the hospital and to his transfer.
He's been in the home almost three weeks now and is so much better physically, but sadly not mentally. We are now, as a family, actively looking for him to stay there as long term resident. However, we are now faced with the hurdle that is getting funding from either the LA or SS which, as I'm sure many of you know, is a series of one hurdle after the other. The home has been very helpful in the advice they have given us, but I'm wondering if anyone out there has any advice on what/what not to do to get some funding. We can pay a top up from our own savings, but that won't last for an indefinite time! Then what happens, when our money runs out?
I should also add that the chemo for his melanoma has been stopped, because it hadn't worked ( Swelling where the original infected nodes were removed has returned and cannot be operated on again) and they're just keeping an eye on his CLL ( no drugs there either).
He seems quite settled where he is and now that he is out of isolation, seems to be a hit with the 'old dears' as he calls them. Reminding him to use his zimmer frame etc! And he is eating too, has developed a taste for old fashioned puddings and custard! Wouldn't eat anything like that at home!!
Thanks for reading this and any advice will be gratefully received!
He's been in the home almost three weeks now and is so much better physically, but sadly not mentally. We are now, as a family, actively looking for him to stay there as long term resident. However, we are now faced with the hurdle that is getting funding from either the LA or SS which, as I'm sure many of you know, is a series of one hurdle after the other. The home has been very helpful in the advice they have given us, but I'm wondering if anyone out there has any advice on what/what not to do to get some funding. We can pay a top up from our own savings, but that won't last for an indefinite time! Then what happens, when our money runs out?
I should also add that the chemo for his melanoma has been stopped, because it hadn't worked ( Swelling where the original infected nodes were removed has returned and cannot be operated on again) and they're just keeping an eye on his CLL ( no drugs there either).
He seems quite settled where he is and now that he is out of isolation, seems to be a hit with the 'old dears' as he calls them. Reminding him to use his zimmer frame etc! And he is eating too, has developed a taste for old fashioned puddings and custard! Wouldn't eat anything like that at home!!
Thanks for reading this and any advice will be gratefully received!