Mum is now in a care home having been dragged through the NHS system of local ward (while she was delirious) after a fall resulting in a broken ankle; moved to rehab unit in small hospital some distance away then moved to a Local Authority home which does no long term care but looks after people for short stay/respite care, day care, interim care and rehabilitation up to a maximum of six weeks. Mum was there for a couple of days over the six weeks and was then moved to her current care home.
In a way my worries about the assessment are about things I just don't know. Will she be charged for the six weeks of interim care? Will I have sufficient paper work and answers? What will be charged for the new home; if they are expecting a top up there is no one who can pay. When we have realised her assets she will have a little over £23,000 and be able to pay for what I believe will be a few months. If there is a top-up (I did make it clear there was no one who could pay this) will they move her?
I know my high levels of anxiety are because I am at a bit of a low ebb and my darling daughter has tried to help (she is working and cannot be there and has already given up time she doesn't have). Her advice is 1. Do not apologise - you are there to be informed not to know already and 2. Don't offer extraneous information; ask open questions such as where, what, when and how ones. She is right as I do start to rabbit when I am anxious but I have also felt swept along by already made decisions in some of the meetings I have been in. So far those decisions were what we felt were in mum's interest but I don't feel very trusting about "top-ups" etc., having been put, I feel, in as position where we had no choice but to pay them for mum's care at home.
Is there any advice you can offer? Thank you all.
In a way my worries about the assessment are about things I just don't know. Will she be charged for the six weeks of interim care? Will I have sufficient paper work and answers? What will be charged for the new home; if they are expecting a top up there is no one who can pay. When we have realised her assets she will have a little over £23,000 and be able to pay for what I believe will be a few months. If there is a top-up (I did make it clear there was no one who could pay this) will they move her?
I know my high levels of anxiety are because I am at a bit of a low ebb and my darling daughter has tried to help (she is working and cannot be there and has already given up time she doesn't have). Her advice is 1. Do not apologise - you are there to be informed not to know already and 2. Don't offer extraneous information; ask open questions such as where, what, when and how ones. She is right as I do start to rabbit when I am anxious but I have also felt swept along by already made decisions in some of the meetings I have been in. So far those decisions were what we felt were in mum's interest but I don't feel very trusting about "top-ups" etc., having been put, I feel, in as position where we had no choice but to pay them for mum's care at home.
Is there any advice you can offer? Thank you all.