1. primarypat

    primarypat Registered User

    Oct 15, 2012
    48
    Ok I have not posted on here for probably over a year. When mum first went into a nursing home just over three years ago I found much comfort, support and useful information here. Thanks everyone. Now it's over for my much loved mother. She died peacefully yesterday evening and I was able to be with her.
    Yes I'm going through that loosing her twice thing. Once when I had to take her to the nursing home the first time knowing she would never come home. (Although by then she didn't recognise it as her home) and now the deep sense of loss again but the relief is almost overwhelming . She was 90 she had 3 daughters, 6 grand children and 9 great grand children she was happily married for over 60 years before she had to go into care and dad died but how it hurts. I looked at some of the other residents at the nursing home last night and my heart broke thinking of what they and their families would have to endure. Think that's enough now. I'm sure you all know where I'm coming from. Pp
     
  2. chick1962

    chick1962 Registered User

    Apr 3, 2014
    11,265
    Female
    near Folkestone
    So sorry to hear of your beloved mums passing. The void must be huge but she is at peace now. Wishing you strength for the coming days . My sincere condolence to you and your family xxxxx


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  3. LYN T

    LYN T Registered User

    Aug 30, 2012
    6,967
    Brixham Devon
    I'm glad that your Mum's passing was peaceful-I hope that helps you in the times ahead.

    Please accept my condolences.

    Take care of yourself

    Lyn T XX
     
  4. 2jays

    2jays Registered User

    Jun 4, 2010
    11,488
    West Midlands
    Thinking of you.

    A huge gap in your life now, more changes to your emotions. I do hope the thought that she is now at peace, gives you peace too xxxxx


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  5. sleepless

    sleepless Registered User

    Feb 19, 2010
    3,232
    Female
    The Sweet North
    Sending sympathy at this saddest of times, but I hope you are comforted knowing your dear Mum passed away peacefully.
     
  6. Pickles53

    Pickles53 Registered User

    Feb 25, 2014
    2,482
    Radcliffe on Trent
    Wishing you comfort and peace at the saddest moment.
     
  7. Gigglemore

    Gigglemore Registered User

    Oct 18, 2013
    526
    British Isles
    Condolences on the loss of your Mum. Wishing you and her loving family strength as you support each other in your grief.
     
  8. CollegeGirl

    CollegeGirl Registered User

    Jan 19, 2011
    9,535
    North East England
    I'm so sorry, please accept my condolences.
     
  9. LadyA

    LadyA Registered User

    Oct 19, 2009
    13,455
    Ireland
    Sorry for your loss. The loss of our parents I think goes very deep, because we realise we are now "the older generation" to our own children. Take care.
     

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