So since my last post a few months ago my nan finally admitted defeat and my grandad is now in a care home as of yesterday. He was due to go Sunday however suffered a bad fall, badly hurting his arm and was in the hospital all weekend. We settled him into the home last night, straight from hospital as it wasn’t safe to go home. I went to see him today and he just looked at me blankly. Every day since he’s had dementia he’s always smiled the moment he’s seen my face, but not today. Has anyone else experienced this? Is it because of the transition of a new place? Even though you know it’s for the best I can’t help the feeling of guilt. The staff said he’d had a great first night seemed settled, and the home looks amazing. However still feel guilty, sad, upset you name it....