Hi all. Thanks for being here, and I'll try to keep this brief.
My Mum has been in a care home for 3 weeks now. She seems quite happy there, although my Dad and I don't think that she really understands where she is. When she arrived there, she thought she was visiting an old work colleague who she had been hallucinating about for the previous day. But she has appeared contented when we have video chatted with her.
Of course no visitors have been allowed at the home, but next week they are bringing their special visitors booth into action. My Dad has an appointment to see Mum.
He is worried about what to say to her if she asks something along the lines of "Why am I here? When can I come home?"
How have other people here dealt with such questions?
I know that this may sound trivial compared to the issues others here are dealing with, but I thought it was worth an ask.
Many thanks.
My Mum has been in a care home for 3 weeks now. She seems quite happy there, although my Dad and I don't think that she really understands where she is. When she arrived there, she thought she was visiting an old work colleague who she had been hallucinating about for the previous day. But she has appeared contented when we have video chatted with her.
Of course no visitors have been allowed at the home, but next week they are bringing their special visitors booth into action. My Dad has an appointment to see Mum.
He is worried about what to say to her if she asks something along the lines of "Why am I here? When can I come home?"
How have other people here dealt with such questions?
I know that this may sound trivial compared to the issues others here are dealing with, but I thought it was worth an ask.
Many thanks.