Hi I've just joined today, have been feeling very down recently My mum who is 61 was diagnosed with alzheimers a few years ago. She is in full time care now and we were very lucky in finding a lovely nursing home where she is very well looked after.
I go to see her regularly ,just recently her health has declined significantly, she no longer recognises me, she struggles to mobilise and she struggles to eat and drink now.
Every time I drive away from the home I sob all the way home, I struggle to cope with the feelings of guilt that Im leaving her there, even though I know its for the best in our circumstances and she is in good hands.
I have a good support network of friends, but when I talk to them I feel none of them can truly undrstand what its like to watch my mothers decline and the guilt I feel over having her admitted to the nursing home.
I'm just wondering how people in similar circumstances deal with it. Any suggestions are welcome
Thanks
I go to see her regularly ,just recently her health has declined significantly, she no longer recognises me, she struggles to mobilise and she struggles to eat and drink now.
Every time I drive away from the home I sob all the way home, I struggle to cope with the feelings of guilt that Im leaving her there, even though I know its for the best in our circumstances and she is in good hands.
I have a good support network of friends, but when I talk to them I feel none of them can truly undrstand what its like to watch my mothers decline and the guilt I feel over having her admitted to the nursing home.
I'm just wondering how people in similar circumstances deal with it. Any suggestions are welcome
Thanks