Have just moved Mum, in the last few days, into her care home. Early days but I cant fault the care staff, they have been lovely and welcoming, everyone one of them that we have met so far. Mum has an awareness of what is happening, sometimes and seems to have accepted the move. That is and hopefully, will continue to be, the sort of person she is. She is always delighted to see me and her old friends. I am feeling guilty and emotional , after years of struggle, that she is no longer at home and find myself questioning if I have done enough. I know that I have , four visits a day from carers who said even that wasnt adequate any more, and twice weekly visits from me which needed an overnight stay each time. I cannot let myself get wound up as we now have to face the job of clearing the house and making decisions about that.