Hello all, I've not posted for a while, but I feel the need to have a moan in a 'safe' place!!! My aunt moved into a care home in November after a nightmare year. My partner and I had to look after her as she refused to have any carers coming in. She would be on the phone several times a day, would say the TV/kettle/toaster/toilet etc was broken. Before she became ill she was always very demanding and a bit spoiled. In the past 3 and a half years I have lost my mum & dad & my uncle. All through their illnesses and after they passed, my aunt would always want my attention and seemed to have no thought about anyone else. I've struggled coping with this and trying to hold on to my job. We have just finished sorting out her house which was a nightmare and I just feel that the pressure will never end. She was originally diagnosed with Alzheimer's and Parkinson's, now they're saying she has Dementia with LB and are trying her with different medications. When we visit, she is in turn tearful/angry/agitated/verbally aggressive. She has hallucinations and uses strange voices at times. It's as though she has her own language, and she becomes annoyed when we can't understand or communicate with her. I feel awful that she is in a care home and really guilty that I don't want to visit a lot of the time. Thanks for listening