hubby has been in care now for several months. so have been sorting out what money can be taken if anything happens to me, it comes down to selling the house for funding me. So have changed my will leaving my half of the house to the children,BUT the awful part was i had to serve notice of sevence on my husband so the house is no longer in joint names, i know this is silly but to me it felt like i was getting rid of him and it really upset me,as i also had to get him to sign this paper[well put a mark on it] to say he had seen it ,but he had no idea what it was and it made me feel so quilty, i know we have to do these things but it all adds to the awful feeling quilt