Despite my elation at having my partners sister on side and visiting well man with him.An appointment has been made and hopefully the doctor will pick up the signals but my partner is now saying he doesn't need his sister with him to explain his headaches and how they make him feel. Has told I cannot speak to his sister anymore about how he his? I am now alone again with his unpredictable ,repetitive behaviour etc. The nurse at the well man clinic told me that what I was describing were typical symptoms of some form of dementia . But unless my partner informs them of what he is experiencing there is nothing they can do. So am hoping the GP will see what others are starting to see. This feeling of helplessness can be overwhelming at times, hope beyond hope that the doctor starts necessary tests and MRI scan etc. If not have to go back to the drawing board . Part of me says can I go through this again after watching my disappear into the world of dementia.,am I strong enough to cope? My optimism must out but at this moment I am deflated and defeated all want is what is best for my partner.Will finish this post later.