That's so tough
@Lynmax , I hope you get a visit soon. IT seems like the home is implying family "brought the infection " in, when just as likely, if not more so staff, as management reluctant to restart visiting. Rights for Residents Facebook group led by two very determined and hardworking ladies are encouraging everyone to email their MP to highlight their story and how inhumane the restrictions on visiting are. I've sent to my MP explaining how it is affecting my mental health , as well as the MP for mum's constituency. I had to send several emails before I got a telephone call from my MP. Unfortunately she is a minister at DHSC, and just trotted out the party line of "restrictions being lifted once it was safe". She had deaf ears when I said my mum was existing not living a meaningful life. She had no ideas of how visits could take place more safely , basically the Govt doesn't want any more deaths on its hands and will do nothing if we let them by remaining quiet.
Please, please everyone email your mp, we must be heard!