Cos tomorrow is my birthday... and husband has no idea. It's so sad. We've had Valentine's Day already this week and not so long ago, Christmas, and a week before that our 40th wedding anniversary. This is the first time round all these anniversaries on my own for me; I know for many of you you have been through this many many times... Just hitting me hard tonight, I know I should be grateful to have a roof over my head and food to eat, heating, etc.... Just needed to express this, not expecting a magic solution....