Hi can you help ,what do you do when they have an toilet accident ,Peter was good he would let me wash him and put clean clothes on him ,but now he won't and he puts it everywhere , I have to fright him to get his clothes of I am getting so tired and every bone in my body hurts , I tried getting help with carers but no one can do it till 11 30 and buy then he is up and not going to let anyone do it then , I think I need a rest but I worry he will be incontinent and worse when he come home ,just don't know what to do oh God I just feel so down right now and I don't think its helping Peter xxxxx Christmas