My dad is the main carer for my mum who has lewy body dementia. They both live in sheltered housing and i live about 10mins away so i see them both at least once a week usually more. I like to give my dad a break so will often sit with mum so he can go out or i will just go over for tea and a chat. I want to see my mum as much as possible especially as she is declining quite quickly. I have two older sisters who live away. The middle sister gets to Ipswich as much as she can and she will also ring my dad regularly. My oldest sister is the problem cause i dont think she does enough. she very rarely rings my dad or comes to Ipswich to see my mum and dad. When she does come down she never talks to my dad about how my mum is and always seems to be in a hurry to get home. I have heard that she is finding it hard and that we all deal with something like this differently but we are all finding it hard particularly my dad. Its not easy seeing my mum going downhill so fast before my eyes and i have had plenty of tears about it but i feel like the important thing is to be there for them both especially my dad. Do i speak to my sister about doing more or leave her to it and concentrate on what im doing for my parents?