I know I can't bring MH home, but honestly, I think I could do a better job than they're doing in the CH. MH is not eating much at all and it has finally occurred to me it's because with dementia, MH has kind of reverted to childhood and won't eat standard fare anymore. When he was at home, all I could get him to eat was stir fried rice, spring rolls, fish and chips, mini mince pies and omelettes, and noodles, but at least he was eating 3 meals a day. Of course in the CH they're not going to pander to him especially. Whereas you'd think they had a duty of care, it seems they're happy to let him starve to death. He is getting Complan each day or something similar, but I feel so helpless and distraught. If I could visit every second day things might be better, but I can't. Even when I'm over this virus, I will be struggling to visit twice a week, but am determined to do that much at least.