My husband has now been moved to a home with nursing as the last one felt they could not meet his needs. Although it is clean with good food and caring staff, he is in a bed in his own room for the next six weeks, when he should be able to sit out of bed. He is immobile and doubly incontinent. He fell and due to a very bad fracture is bed bound. He has only been in for a couple of days and looking at the other residents in their individual rooms, they appear to be in the middle to late stage. One gentleman shouts out continuously for an hour at a time. My husband is nowhere like this and is sleepy most of the time with strong painkillers. I am now contemplating whether to have him home for what may be the last months but could be years, who knows. I certainly have enough room for adaptations but would need to get carers in four times a day. I feel better than I have in the past few months as the doctors have put me on antidepressants which are working well. I am wondering if I am going down the wrong path with this. I live on my own. I don't want my husband to die in a nursing home without me with him.