My 93 year old Mother was admitted to a residential home 18 months ago with multi infarct dementia- they have beds for people with dementia.We have requested psychiatric assessment but have had 4 visits from a nurse but no consultant.My mothers behaviour with time has become more challenging but everything dealt with via nurse from a distance.Gp zero help.2 days ago I get an email giving us 28 days notice as they feel they can no longer cope with her.We have power of attorney for finance but not health.Psychiatric nurse says We must choose and move her - no help.We have asked now 4 times for a full assessment of her needs as she has a DOLs in place and obviously needs full time care - nobody's interested and she's self funding.So now trying to find a suitable dementia nursing home at short notice and feel totally abandoned -I foolishly thought the hardest thing was putting her in a home - no it's knowing we've got to do it all again to a frail vulnerable elderly blind mother with no help