I believe that my 60 year old father has significant congnitive decline. I am 29 years old and run a construction business with my mother and father. As time progresses his condition is getting worse. He becomes easily confused, loses focus of a conversation and “talks in circles.” He butchers every name for every customer. His “nicknames” also change from time to time. I have been dealing with forgetfulness / aggressive changes in thought on ideas for the business for 2 1/2 years. He has been getting progressively getting worse and making mistakes that cost thousands of dollars. An example, he ordered a customers material twice (each order cost almost $7,000.00). Last month he ordered completely wrong product for another job ($9,000 worth) I tried talking to my mother about his issues and she is in complete denial. We sub for a big box store and he gets taken advantage of with these jobs too. He buys extra material needed for jobs they short is on and doesn’t back charge for it. 100’s turn to tens of thousands of dollars over a years time. He has been in this industry over 40 years. Pride is toxic to them right now because in the past they have been very successful at the same business. However, times have changed and they aren’t adapting. He is in full control of this business and his conflictive decline is hurting our business and could potentially ruin us if it continues. This business provides not only for myself but my daughter, my sister, brother in-law, their two daughters. I am also the youngest child so i would get no respect if I tried starting this conversation with him. I just know it. I am joining this forum to hopefully get advice and create the courage to stand up and get him help before it’s too late. I am not as interested in figuring out how he got this way as I am needing solutions to get this ball rolling. He deserves the help. I don’t know where to start.