I strongly suspect my 80yr old mother in law has dementia. Conversations are on a loop the same conversation over and over again. She has paranoia snd is in complete denial as is the rest of the family. She’s forgetting to wash or shower. We have spent two years trying to get her to the GP for an assessment each time she flies into a rage and refuses to leave the house. Because of Covid the surgery won’t come out to her. And we have made 4 apts which she has flown into a rage and refused to go. She is now becoming agrophobic and keeps making up stories about the neighbours pretending to take their mother out for the day and then dumping her in a home. So now she won’t leave the house. Her husband is 85 and has had a few mini strokes he’s doing his best but just gives in to her. He needs help as it’s taking its toll on him. My husband is at their beck and call despite working full time and the stress is affecting his health. How can we get her assessed if she refuses to leave the house?