Hi my first post is unfortunately a big grumble. As well as working, I care for my downs syndrome sis and my 88 yr old mum that has dementia. I am happy to do this, but I really wish my bro or one of my two nieces would occasionally stay the weekend and give me a break. They never call to ask how we are, nothing - the only communication is when they come up for Christmas to collect their pressies! Pls don't tell me to contact them - I have plenty of times - kept it light hearted and it is so one sided that I no longer have any interest in contacting them. I am so saddened, angry and hurt at their lack of care and if they were to get in touch with me now I would probably go mad at them! Any way I'm sure my sadness and anger will pass.