I think I have finally identified the feeling that has been getting me down lately.
It is a feeling of failure.
In the past I have always been good at whatever I undertook, not world beating or earth shattering but competent, and here is something I can do nothing about.
My head of course tells me that to feel like that is nonsensical, but when the person concerned is Margaret who I have loved and been married to for 53years, my heart is shouting failure.
I know that I am doing all that I can, (and more than a lot do), in a physical sense, but this feeling of inadequacy persists in spite of logical thinking.
I hope that now I have discovered what it is, I will be better able to deal with it.
Has anyone else had similar feelings and how did you cope?
Cheers barraf
It is a feeling of failure.
In the past I have always been good at whatever I undertook, not world beating or earth shattering but competent, and here is something I can do nothing about.
My head of course tells me that to feel like that is nonsensical, but when the person concerned is Margaret who I have loved and been married to for 53years, my heart is shouting failure.
I know that I am doing all that I can, (and more than a lot do), in a physical sense, but this feeling of inadequacy persists in spite of logical thinking.
I hope that now I have discovered what it is, I will be better able to deal with it.
Has anyone else had similar feelings and how did you cope?
Cheers barraf