I have just got back from seeing Nan and I have a few worries I am hoping some of you may be able to help with.
Nan is still not eating, she says she is but I know she isn't. That lovely little woman is wasting away before my eyes but no matter how much encouragement she has she is still not eating. Her fluid intake is slowly diminishing too. She can just about manage half a tea cup of drink each time but surely this can't be enough? She is barely drinking water either. The carers are concerned that her pads have been clean and dry for a couple of days. When I take her to the toilet at night though, she always has a wee. I do not think they are taking her when they visit, nothing is said in the book. I know she says she's not hungry but how can she not be? She weighs about 6stone 5. Is there anything else I can do to get her to eat?
Nan looked really tired tonight and struggled to keep her eyes open. She is very pale
I have noticed some large bruises appeared on the back of her leg and one on her thigh. Why is she getting these? I wonder if I need to request the GP to do a home visit? There is no motivation for anything, she has stopped reading and watching television and I really am petrified she is going to waste away in that bed. She won't sit in the chair and the anti-depressants seem to have had no effect.
Tonight I lost a little hope that my Nan is ever going to improve.
On a high note though, she did say my name tonight for the first time in months. It felt awesome
Nan is still not eating, she says she is but I know she isn't. That lovely little woman is wasting away before my eyes but no matter how much encouragement she has she is still not eating. Her fluid intake is slowly diminishing too. She can just about manage half a tea cup of drink each time but surely this can't be enough? She is barely drinking water either. The carers are concerned that her pads have been clean and dry for a couple of days. When I take her to the toilet at night though, she always has a wee. I do not think they are taking her when they visit, nothing is said in the book. I know she says she's not hungry but how can she not be? She weighs about 6stone 5. Is there anything else I can do to get her to eat?
Nan looked really tired tonight and struggled to keep her eyes open. She is very pale
I have noticed some large bruises appeared on the back of her leg and one on her thigh. Why is she getting these? I wonder if I need to request the GP to do a home visit? There is no motivation for anything, she has stopped reading and watching television and I really am petrified she is going to waste away in that bed. She won't sit in the chair and the anti-depressants seem to have had no effect.
Tonight I lost a little hope that my Nan is ever going to improve.
On a high note though, she did say my name tonight for the first time in months. It felt awesome