Hi all I have not posted for a while I have been busy trying to clear mums house as I have now put it up for sale. I visit her every week and have to lie about the work I am doing on the house so she can go home soon. I am living with the dreaded guilt and can not see a day in the near future when I do not wake up feeling dread about what today brings. The home have told me to carry on with the white lie because she will eventually forget about home, but I think Mum will hang on to this till her dying day because she loved her home and even cut her holidays short to get back there. Because I have been feeling so bad I have been reading all of your messages but have not been able to post myself. Today I need help for a friend of mine whos MIL has gone down with memory problems to a severe degree over the past 4 weeks, she needs to get an EPA urgently and I have been unable to find the link you sent me in the past to download the forms can any one help!! thanks for your help and love to you all.